About Us
The couple behind ConsensualLifestyle
Our Story
We're an interracial couple in our early 30s who've been together since high school. What started as teenage sweethearts has evolved into a partnership built on trust, communication, and the courage to explore our desires authentically.
I'm a stag who loves watching my beautiful vixen/hotwife embrace her sexuality with confidence and empowerment. She's a stunning PAWG who knows exactly what she wants and isn't afraid to go after it. Together, we prioritize health and fitness, believing that taking care of our bodies enhances every aspect of our lives—including our adventures in the lifestyle.
What We Believe
Communication First
Open, honest dialogue is the foundation of everything we do. We believe in talking through desires, boundaries, and feelings—even when it's uncomfortable.
Healthy Living
We're passionate about fitness and wellness. A healthy body supports a healthy mind, which allows us to show up fully in all aspects of our relationship.
Sexual Empowerment
We celebrate female sexuality and agency. The hotwife dynamic works for us because it centers her pleasure, confidence, and freedom to explore.
Authenticity
We're not perfect, and we don't pretend to be. We share our real experiences—the successes, the challenges, and everything in between.
Why We Created This Site
When we first started exploring the lifestyle, we struggled to find resources that felt authentic, modern, and inclusive. Most sites were either outdated, overly commercialized, or didn't represent couples like us.
We created ConsensualLifestyle to be the resource we wished we'd had—a place where people can find honest information, discover events and communities, and see that ethical non-monogamy comes in many forms.
Whether you're curious about the lifestyle, actively exploring, or years into your journey, we hope this site provides value, inspiration, and a sense of community.
Our Approach to the Lifestyle
Hotwife Dynamic
Our primary dynamic centers on her empowerment and sexual freedom. We've found that this arrangement strengthens our bond and keeps our relationship exciting.
Fitness & Attraction
We both prioritize working out and staying healthy. Feeling confident in our bodies makes us more present and engaged in lifestyle experiences.
Continuous Learning
We're always reading, listening to podcasts, and learning from others in the community. The lifestyle is a journey, not a destination.
Respect & Discretion
We value privacy and respect everyone's boundaries. What happens in the lifestyle stays in the lifestyle, and consent is non-negotiable.
Connect With Us
While we keep our personal identities private, we're active in creating content and building this resource for the community. We're always curating new blog posts, updating event listings, and adding resources to help couples navigate the lifestyle.