Lifestyle Resources

A curated collection of trusted platforms, communities, and educational resources to support your journey.

Online Communities & Forums

Adult Friend Finder

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Massive adult dating community with approximately 80 million users globally. Offers extensive search filters, live cams, and diverse membership including swingers, couples, and singles. Quick registration process and active daily users.

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Feeld

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Modern, design-forward dating app for open-minded singles and couples exploring alternative relationships. Clean interface, inclusive of all genders and orientations, with a focus on ethical non-monogamy and kink-friendly connections.

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FabSwingers

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Popular in the UK and expanding worldwide with large active community. Free to use with mandatory photo verification to reduce fake profiles. Straightforward, no-nonsense approach to connecting swingers.

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Kasidie

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Premium lifestyle dating and social networking site popular on the West Coast and growing nationwide. Known for high-quality member base, robust event calendar, travel features, and active forums. Paid membership required.

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r/Swingers

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Active Reddit community with over 400k members discussing all aspects of the swinging lifestyle. Great for advice, experiences, questions, and connecting with others. Features daily discussion threads and welcoming atmosphere for newbies.

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SDC (Swingers Date Club)

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One of the largest lifestyle communities with over 3 million members globally. Features exclusive beginner-friendly events, comprehensive forums, global event directory, and club locator. Known for welcoming newcomers to the lifestyle.

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SLS (SwingLifestyle)

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Alternative access to SwingLifestyle platform. Comprehensive lifestyle community with member profiles, event listings, clubs directory, and active discussion forums. One of the oldest and most trusted platforms in the lifestyle.

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SwapFinder

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Large adult community with over 40 million members worldwide, often described as 'Swinger Facebook.' Heavy focus on photo sharing and visual content. Free to join with options for couples and singles seeking swinging experiences.

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Swing Social

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Fast-growing swinger and kink community built by swingers for swingers. Features member browsing, event search, unlimited messaging on paid plans, and access to both free and private events. Modern platform design.

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SwingLifestyle (SLS)

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One of the largest and most established lifestyle dating sites with millions of members worldwide. Features extensive search filters, event calendars, forums, and certification system. Free basic membership available.

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SwingTowns

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Blog and online community for swingers with focus on inclusivity and consent. Offers resources, connection tools, and educational content for those exploring the swinger lifestyle in a safe, supportive environment.

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Educational Resources

Accidental Swingers Podcast

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Chronicles Myrina and Tristan's journey as a longtime married couple who accidentally stumbled into the swinger lifestyle. Discusses consensual non-monogamy, sex-positivity, kink, and alternative lifestyles with humor and vulnerability.

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4ourplay

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Founded by lifestyle power couple Bella and Jase, 4OURPLAY offers a podcast, YouTube channel, events, apparel, and games for the swinging community. Known for coining the term 'spicy cruise' and creating authentic, engaging content about consensual non-monogamy.

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Black N Kinky Lifestyle Podcast

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Bomber and Belle, a Black professional married couple, share their swinging lifestyle experiences. Fills a gap in representation by focusing on the unique experiences of Black singles and couples in ethical non-monogamy.

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Comin' Out Swinging Podcast

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Victoria and Dave Arena share 22+ years of swinging experience from nearly 30 years together. Raw, real look at how modern relationships buckle under societal expectations. Redefines 'couple goals' with unfiltered honesty.

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Front Porch Swingers Podcast

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Hosts Brenna and Brian share their raw and real adventures in non-monogamy, swinging, hotwifing, and polyamory. Weekly episodes recount actual encounters and experiences with honesty and humor.

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Bed Hoppers Podcast

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UK-based happily married couple exploring ethical non-monogamy through swinging for 5+ years. Mission to normalize the lifestyle and help people starting out. Sharing adventures since 2018 with British perspective.

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Hump Day Quickies: Swinger Confessions

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Sex-positive podcast where members of the ethically non-monogamous lifestyle share their stories. Listeners can share their own sexy stories by calling in. Hosted by G and Nessa, rated 4.6/5 on Apple Podcasts.

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Life on the Swingset Podcast

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One of the first podcasts centered on swinging and polyamory practices, with 416+ episodes. Features different guests sharing experiences about exploring non-monogamous sexual practices. Long-running and comprehensive resource.

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Multiamory Podcast

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Considered one of the best polyamory podcasts. Hosted by Emily, Dedeker, and Jaseβ€”relationship coaches with polyamorous experience. Offers entertaining, thought-provoking advice on healthy non-monogamous relationships, including family and professional dynamics.

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Normalizing Non-Monogamy

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Award-winning podcast hosted by Emma and Fin, a married couple with 15+ years exploring non-monogamy. Weekly interviews with diverse guests across gender, sexuality, and relationship styles. Aims to reduce stigma and inspire authentic living.

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The Swing Nation

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A podcast by swingers, for swingers, where we look to shed a positive light on the underground world of swinging. Features lifestyle education, community events, interviews, and practical advice for couples exploring ethical non-monogamy.

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Two Plus Two: The Swinger Podcast for Couples

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Podcast specifically designed for couples exploring or active in the swinging lifestyle. Focuses on couple dynamics, communication strategies, and navigating the lifestyle together as a team.

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That Other Lifestyle Podcast

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Host Jayson Lee delivers unapologetically real swinger/lifestyle content covering sexy etiquette, emotional intelligence, awkward mishaps, and unforgettable wins. Unfiltered advice with humor for people who live freedom, not just talk about it.

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We Gotta Thing

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Popular lifestyle podcast and community resource featuring honest conversations about swinging, relationship dynamics, and navigating the lifestyle. Hosts share personal experiences and interview guests from the community.

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Event Platforms

Lifestyle Lounge

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Exclusive swinger site that organizes and promotes high-end lifestyle parties, primarily held in Las Vegas. Offers classic dating services plus access to upscale, well-attended events in the sin city of the United States.

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The Swinger Cruise

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Resource for swingers who enjoy traveling, founded in 2006. Creates unique and unforgettable travel experiences including reviews of swinger cruises and resorts, safety tips, and advice for planning the perfect swinger vacation.

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Wanderlust Swingers

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Travel-focused lifestyle community for adventurous couples. Organizes lifestyle travel experiences, destination events, and connects swingers who love exploring new places together. Combines wanderlust with the swinging lifestyle.

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Young Couples Party

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Events and parties specifically designed for younger couples (21-45) exploring the lifestyle. Features meet-and-greets, hotel takeovers, and lifestyle parties across the US.

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Clubs & Venues

Boca Negra Club

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Lifestyle club offering a welcoming environment for couples and select singles to explore. Features themed parties, private play areas, and social spaces. Known for creating a comfortable atmosphere for both newcomers and experienced lifestyle participants.

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SNCTM

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Ultra-exclusive, luxury lifestyle club known for high-end, invitation-only events. Features elaborate masked parties in major cities with strict vetting process. Premium membership required. Known for discretion and upscale atmosphere.

πŸ“ Los Angeles, New York, Miami

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