The House
The House
“The Place Where Friends Play!” - Private Residence for Exclusive Lifestyle Parties
The House is a PRIVATE residence that we share for exclusive lifestyle parties. Our parties are by invitation only. There is a nice crowd of people who come to our parties of all backgrounds, ages, and experience.
About The House
Venue Identity
- The House is a PRIVATE residence - That we share for exclusive lifestyle parties
- Our parties are by invitation only - Core access policy
- There is a nice crowd of people - Who come to our parties
- Of all backgrounds, ages, and experience - Community diversity
- Private residence - Core venue type
- Exclusive lifestyle parties - Core purpose
- Invitation only - Access policy
- Diverse community - All backgrounds, ages, experience
Access & Demographics
- Anyone that would like to attend - One of our parties must email us with a picture
- So we know who is coming - We can only allow 45 couples and 5 single females to the party
- The couples that attend our parties - Come from all walks of life
- But share one thing in common - They want their lifestyle experience to be a PRIVATE matter
- Email with picture required - For attendance
- 45 couples limit - Capacity
- 5 single females limit - Capacity
- All walks of life - Community diversity
- PRIVATE matter - Core value
First Time Requirements
- Please make sure that you bring - A valid picture ID
- No one will be allowed in the party - Without showing a picture ID
- Please note that we DO NOT - Make a copy of your ID or collect your personal information
- Please bring your own towel - If you plan to go in the pool or hot tub
- We do have a few towels - But try to bring your own
- Valid picture ID - Required
- No ID copying - Privacy protection
- Bring own towel - Recommended
Arrival Experience
- Every new person will be shown - A video tour of THE HOUSE
- So that you are familiar - With everything that we offer
- This will also allow you the chance - To ask any questions that you may have
- Video tour - For new people
- Familiarization - With offerings
- Question opportunity - For new attendees
No Pressure Philosophy
- There is no pressure for you - To do anything at all
- If you like, you can just sit back - And watch everything that goes on
- Without being involved - No one will pressure you to do anything
- You should not have anyone come up - And try to touch you without your permission
- If someone wants to touch you - They should ask first
- So please remember gentlemen - If a lady walks by you and she is naked or clothed
- That does not give you the right - To touch her. Ask first
- If you feel like you are being pressured - To do something let the owner know about it
- So we can take care of things - We will be nice to the person when we talk with them
- No pressure - Core philosophy
- Watch without involvement - Option
- Ask first - Before touching
- Owner intervention - For pressure issues
Alcohol Policy
- We do not buy, sell, serve, or hold - Any alcohol at our parties
- Our parties are BYOB - So you may bring your own alcohol
- However, that is limited to beer and wine products only - No hard alcohol will be allowed
- On the property due to NC laws - We also do not take or hold your alcohol for you
- We do have two refrigerators - That you may use to place your drinks in to keep cool
- But we are not responsible for or keep an eye on your drinks - The refrigerators are open to everyone to use
- And are in plain sight for everyone to see - That does not mean someone might accidentally grab your drink by mistake
- If you are unsure, then you are more than welcome - To bring a cooler to place your drinks in and keep with you
- BYOB policy - Beer and wine only
- No hard alcohol - NC law compliance
- Two refrigerators - Available for use
- Cooler option - For personal storage
Prohibited Items
- There will be no hard alcohol - Allowed at the party
- Beer and wine products only - We do not sell alcohol
- So if you want to drink any alcohol - You must bring your own
- No illegal drugs are allowed - At the party
- Anyone found with any illegal drug - Will be banned from the THE HOUSE and not allowed back, ever
- No cameras are allowed - At the party
- We do not allow any pictures to be taken - At the club so that we can protect everyone’s identity
- If we see anyone with a camera - We will ask you to remove the camera from the party
- No weapons of any kind - Prohibited
- No hard alcohol - Policy
- No illegal drugs - Banned forever
- No cameras - Identity protection
- No weapons - Prohibited
Facilities & Amenities
- We have a large party/group area - With seating
- A full kitchen - Available
- Sitting room with XXX video - Entertainment
- 3 bathrooms - Available
- 8 on-premise play rooms - That are open all evening
- So you can play when you are ready - Hot tub available
- 16’ x 40’ in-ground pool - And outside seating as well
- Large party/group area - With seating
- Full kitchen - Available
- XXX video room - Entertainment
- 8 play rooms - Open all evening
- Hot tub - Available
- In-ground pool - 16’ x 40’
- Outside seating - Available
Membership & Privacy
- There is no membership at The House - It is a totally private party
- And is not open to the public - We do not ask for any personal information
- Such as your home address, phone number or email address - The House is an invite-only party
- No membership - Required
- Private party - Not open to public
- No personal information - Collected
- Invite-only - Access policy
Agreement Requirements
- The only thing that everyone who attends - Our parties must sign is an agreement form
- That states you are at least 21 years old - And understand that our parties are of an adult nature
- And you are not offended by nudity - Or adult situations
- Also, that we do not sell, serve or provide alcohol - To anyone and no drugs are allowed on our property
- This agreement is then securely filed away - And never given to anyone
- Agreement form - Required
- 21 years old - Minimum age
- Adult nature - Understanding required
- Not offended by nudity - Required
- Securely filed - Privacy protection
Smoking Policy
- Yes. The inside of The House - Is all non-smoking
- There is a designated area for smoking - Out by the pool table
- But please respect that this is a private residence - And use the ashtrays provided
- Non-smoking inside - Policy
- Designated smoking area - By pool table
- Private residence respect - Required
Upcoming Events
Featured Events
- Swingler Private Party - Friday, October 24th @ 7pm
- Fantasy Night: Fairies, Vampires, Mythical Creatures - The final Swingler seduction of the season
- Leather & Lace - Saturday, October 25th @ 7pm
- Friday Night Female Fantasy Night - Friday, October 31st @ 7pm
- Halloween Costume Party - Saturday, November 1st @ 7pm (best costume $100)
- Regular programming - Saturday nights and every other Friday
- Theme parties - Regular events
- Costume contests - With prizes
Contact Information
- Website: iltephouse.com
- Email: reservations@iltephouse.com
- Type: Private Residence for Exclusive Lifestyle Parties
- Location: Raleigh, NC
- Focus: “The Place Where Friends Play!”
Getting Started
For New Members
- Understand private residence - Invitation only parties
- Email with picture required - For attendance
- 45 couples, 5 single females - Capacity limits
- Valid picture ID required - No copying or collection
- Bring own towel - Recommended
- BYOB beer and wine only - No hard alcohol
- No pressure philosophy - Watch or participate
- Contact reservations@iltephouse.com - For information
What to Expect
- The House is a PRIVATE residence - That we share for exclusive lifestyle parties
- Our parties are by invitation only - Core access policy
- There is a nice crowd of people - Who come to our parties of all backgrounds, ages, and experience
- Anyone that would like to attend - One of our parties must email us with a picture
- We can only allow 45 couples and 5 single females - To the party
- The couples that attend our parties - Come from all walks of life but share one thing in common
- They want their lifestyle experience - To be a PRIVATE matter
- Please make sure that you bring - A valid picture ID
- No one will be allowed in the party - Without showing a picture ID
- We DO NOT make a copy of your ID - Or collect your personal information
- Every new person will be shown - A video tour of THE HOUSE
- There is no pressure for you - To do anything at all
- You can just sit back and watch - Everything that goes on without being involved
- If someone wants to touch you - They should ask first
- Our parties are BYOB - Beer and wine products only
- No hard alcohol will be allowed - On the property due to NC laws
- We have a large party/group area - With seating, full kitchen, sitting room with XXX video
- 3 bathrooms, 8 on-premise play rooms - That are open all evening
- Hot tub, 16’ x 40’ in-ground pool - And outside seating as well
- There is no membership at The House - It is a totally private party
- The only thing that everyone must sign - Is an agreement form
- The inside of The House - Is all non-smoking
- There is a designated area for smoking - Out by the pool table
What to Expect
The House provides Raleigh’s premier private residence experience for exclusive lifestyle parties by invitation only, welcoming a nice crowd of people from all backgrounds, ages, and experience who want their lifestyle experience to be a PRIVATE matter. With capacity limits of 45 couples and 5 single females, valid picture ID required (no copying), BYOB beer and wine only, no pressure philosophy allowing watching or participation, large party area with full kitchen and XXX video room, 8 on-premise play rooms open all evening, hot tub and 16’ x 40’ in-ground pool, no membership required, agreement form for 21+ adults not offended by nudity, and non-smoking inside with designated smoking area, you’ll find “The Place Where Friends Play!”
“The Place Where Friends Play!” - Private Residence for Exclusive Lifestyle Parties