The House

📍 Raleigh, North Carolina
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Address: Raleigh, NC
Entry: The House is a PRIVATE residence that we share for exclusive lifestyle parties. Our parties are by invitation only. There is a nice crowd of people who come to our parties of all backgrounds, ages, and experience. Anyone that would like to attend one of our parties must email us with a picture so we know who is coming. We can only allow 45 couples and 5 single females to the party.
Age: 21+

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The House

“The Place Where Friends Play!” - Private Residence for Exclusive Lifestyle Parties

The House is a PRIVATE residence that we share for exclusive lifestyle parties. Our parties are by invitation only. There is a nice crowd of people who come to our parties of all backgrounds, ages, and experience.

About The House

Venue Identity

  • The House is a PRIVATE residence - That we share for exclusive lifestyle parties
  • Our parties are by invitation only - Core access policy
  • There is a nice crowd of people - Who come to our parties
  • Of all backgrounds, ages, and experience - Community diversity
  • Private residence - Core venue type
  • Exclusive lifestyle parties - Core purpose
  • Invitation only - Access policy
  • Diverse community - All backgrounds, ages, experience

Access & Demographics

  • Anyone that would like to attend - One of our parties must email us with a picture
  • So we know who is coming - We can only allow 45 couples and 5 single females to the party
  • The couples that attend our parties - Come from all walks of life
  • But share one thing in common - They want their lifestyle experience to be a PRIVATE matter
  • Email with picture required - For attendance
  • 45 couples limit - Capacity
  • 5 single females limit - Capacity
  • All walks of life - Community diversity
  • PRIVATE matter - Core value

First Time Requirements

  • Please make sure that you bring - A valid picture ID
  • No one will be allowed in the party - Without showing a picture ID
  • Please note that we DO NOT - Make a copy of your ID or collect your personal information
  • Please bring your own towel - If you plan to go in the pool or hot tub
  • We do have a few towels - But try to bring your own
  • Valid picture ID - Required
  • No ID copying - Privacy protection
  • Bring own towel - Recommended

Arrival Experience

  • Every new person will be shown - A video tour of THE HOUSE
  • So that you are familiar - With everything that we offer
  • This will also allow you the chance - To ask any questions that you may have
  • Video tour - For new people
  • Familiarization - With offerings
  • Question opportunity - For new attendees

No Pressure Philosophy

  • There is no pressure for you - To do anything at all
  • If you like, you can just sit back - And watch everything that goes on
  • Without being involved - No one will pressure you to do anything
  • You should not have anyone come up - And try to touch you without your permission
  • If someone wants to touch you - They should ask first
  • So please remember gentlemen - If a lady walks by you and she is naked or clothed
  • That does not give you the right - To touch her. Ask first
  • If you feel like you are being pressured - To do something let the owner know about it
  • So we can take care of things - We will be nice to the person when we talk with them
  • No pressure - Core philosophy
  • Watch without involvement - Option
  • Ask first - Before touching
  • Owner intervention - For pressure issues

Alcohol Policy

  • We do not buy, sell, serve, or hold - Any alcohol at our parties
  • Our parties are BYOB - So you may bring your own alcohol
  • However, that is limited to beer and wine products only - No hard alcohol will be allowed
  • On the property due to NC laws - We also do not take or hold your alcohol for you
  • We do have two refrigerators - That you may use to place your drinks in to keep cool
  • But we are not responsible for or keep an eye on your drinks - The refrigerators are open to everyone to use
  • And are in plain sight for everyone to see - That does not mean someone might accidentally grab your drink by mistake
  • If you are unsure, then you are more than welcome - To bring a cooler to place your drinks in and keep with you
  • BYOB policy - Beer and wine only
  • No hard alcohol - NC law compliance
  • Two refrigerators - Available for use
  • Cooler option - For personal storage

Prohibited Items

  • There will be no hard alcohol - Allowed at the party
  • Beer and wine products only - We do not sell alcohol
  • So if you want to drink any alcohol - You must bring your own
  • No illegal drugs are allowed - At the party
  • Anyone found with any illegal drug - Will be banned from the THE HOUSE and not allowed back, ever
  • No cameras are allowed - At the party
  • We do not allow any pictures to be taken - At the club so that we can protect everyone’s identity
  • If we see anyone with a camera - We will ask you to remove the camera from the party
  • No weapons of any kind - Prohibited
  • No hard alcohol - Policy
  • No illegal drugs - Banned forever
  • No cameras - Identity protection
  • No weapons - Prohibited

Facilities & Amenities

  • We have a large party/group area - With seating
  • A full kitchen - Available
  • Sitting room with XXX video - Entertainment
  • 3 bathrooms - Available
  • 8 on-premise play rooms - That are open all evening
  • So you can play when you are ready - Hot tub available
  • 16’ x 40’ in-ground pool - And outside seating as well
  • Large party/group area - With seating
  • Full kitchen - Available
  • XXX video room - Entertainment
  • 8 play rooms - Open all evening
  • Hot tub - Available
  • In-ground pool - 16’ x 40’
  • Outside seating - Available

Membership & Privacy

  • There is no membership at The House - It is a totally private party
  • And is not open to the public - We do not ask for any personal information
  • Such as your home address, phone number or email address - The House is an invite-only party
  • No membership - Required
  • Private party - Not open to public
  • No personal information - Collected
  • Invite-only - Access policy

Agreement Requirements

  • The only thing that everyone who attends - Our parties must sign is an agreement form
  • That states you are at least 21 years old - And understand that our parties are of an adult nature
  • And you are not offended by nudity - Or adult situations
  • Also, that we do not sell, serve or provide alcohol - To anyone and no drugs are allowed on our property
  • This agreement is then securely filed away - And never given to anyone
  • Agreement form - Required
  • 21 years old - Minimum age
  • Adult nature - Understanding required
  • Not offended by nudity - Required
  • Securely filed - Privacy protection

Smoking Policy

  • Yes. The inside of The House - Is all non-smoking
  • There is a designated area for smoking - Out by the pool table
  • But please respect that this is a private residence - And use the ashtrays provided
  • Non-smoking inside - Policy
  • Designated smoking area - By pool table
  • Private residence respect - Required

Upcoming Events

  • Swingler Private Party - Friday, October 24th @ 7pm
  • Fantasy Night: Fairies, Vampires, Mythical Creatures - The final Swingler seduction of the season
  • Leather & Lace - Saturday, October 25th @ 7pm
  • Friday Night Female Fantasy Night - Friday, October 31st @ 7pm
  • Halloween Costume Party - Saturday, November 1st @ 7pm (best costume $100)
  • Regular programming - Saturday nights and every other Friday
  • Theme parties - Regular events
  • Costume contests - With prizes

Contact Information

Getting Started

For New Members

  1. Understand private residence - Invitation only parties
  2. Email with picture required - For attendance
  3. 45 couples, 5 single females - Capacity limits
  4. Valid picture ID required - No copying or collection
  5. Bring own towel - Recommended
  6. BYOB beer and wine only - No hard alcohol
  7. No pressure philosophy - Watch or participate
  8. Contact reservations@iltephouse.com - For information

What to Expect

  • The House is a PRIVATE residence - That we share for exclusive lifestyle parties
  • Our parties are by invitation only - Core access policy
  • There is a nice crowd of people - Who come to our parties of all backgrounds, ages, and experience
  • Anyone that would like to attend - One of our parties must email us with a picture
  • We can only allow 45 couples and 5 single females - To the party
  • The couples that attend our parties - Come from all walks of life but share one thing in common
  • They want their lifestyle experience - To be a PRIVATE matter
  • Please make sure that you bring - A valid picture ID
  • No one will be allowed in the party - Without showing a picture ID
  • We DO NOT make a copy of your ID - Or collect your personal information
  • Every new person will be shown - A video tour of THE HOUSE
  • There is no pressure for you - To do anything at all
  • You can just sit back and watch - Everything that goes on without being involved
  • If someone wants to touch you - They should ask first
  • Our parties are BYOB - Beer and wine products only
  • No hard alcohol will be allowed - On the property due to NC laws
  • We have a large party/group area - With seating, full kitchen, sitting room with XXX video
  • 3 bathrooms, 8 on-premise play rooms - That are open all evening
  • Hot tub, 16’ x 40’ in-ground pool - And outside seating as well
  • There is no membership at The House - It is a totally private party
  • The only thing that everyone must sign - Is an agreement form
  • The inside of The House - Is all non-smoking
  • There is a designated area for smoking - Out by the pool table

What to Expect

The House provides Raleigh’s premier private residence experience for exclusive lifestyle parties by invitation only, welcoming a nice crowd of people from all backgrounds, ages, and experience who want their lifestyle experience to be a PRIVATE matter. With capacity limits of 45 couples and 5 single females, valid picture ID required (no copying), BYOB beer and wine only, no pressure philosophy allowing watching or participation, large party area with full kitchen and XXX video room, 8 on-premise play rooms open all evening, hot tub and 16’ x 40’ in-ground pool, no membership required, agreement form for 21+ adults not offended by nudity, and non-smoking inside with designated smoking area, you’ll find “The Place Where Friends Play!”

“The Place Where Friends Play!” - Private Residence for Exclusive Lifestyle Parties