Virginia Friends
Virginia Friends
ABOUT THE CLUB (BTW, This club is for Couples and Single Females ONLY!)
First let us start off by saying welcome and we are glad you are here at our website. The intent of this website is solely to support the club. It is not intended to be a dating site. It is here to track your membership, purchase tickets and get information about event. Everything else is just a bonus. You can meet people here, but eventually, you will be required to attend an event. This keeps this website real unlike other national websites.
Our Philosophy
Virginia Friends is a completely different, much more relaxed, secure atmosphere. Here you are under no obligation to do ANYTHING you do not want to. The golden rule is “NO MEANS NO!” You actually get to meet, see and talk to the people from the very start. And there is no uncomfortable expectations on you.
What to Expect at a Virginia Friends Social
Arrival & Registration
When you first arrive at one of our socials, you will notice our events in a clean, safe, well-maintained area at a nationally known hotel. If you are staying at the hotel, you will check into your room (don’t worry, the hotel staff treats you no differently than any other guest). If you have arrived early enough, between 3-5 pm, you can register at early registration set up at the hotel lounge.
Newcomer’s Seminar
Once settled, you will attend a newcomer’s seminar in the hotel lounge. This is MANDATORY for all first-time members, even if you have been in the lifestyle for many years. The main purpose is to answer any questions about the club or lifestyle and familiarize you with local rules, guidelines, club rules and etiquette, etc. It’s very informal and allows you to meet other couples ahead of time. From 5 to 20 new couples may attend the seminar at any social.
Registration & Security
When the seminar is over you will register at the registration desk outside the lounge if you have not already done so at early registration. You and your partner must each show a valid driver’s license as proof of age. Here, you will pay any fees due and receive your wristbands and optional name tags. Wristbands are worn so you can easily tell club members from regular hotel guests, so our security staff can tell who you are.
Security & Privacy
Virginia Friends provides security, privacy, and protection for your benefit. They mingle with the crowd in a very low-key manner and make sure only members are allowed admittance to members’ areas (the lounge and the club floor). You will be able to identify them by the shirts they wear and state-of-the-art headsets, which allow them to be in constant contact with each other.
The Dance Experience
Most dances average 65 or more couples in varying age groups of 25 to 55. Have you ever been to a nightclub with about 200 people dancing and socializing? Our dances are no different. The only exception is you will probably meet more people, and you don’t have to worry about single men hitting on your spouse. Everyone there has the same thing on their mind. A night out to have fun and enjoy your spouse with the possibility of a little extra bonus thrown in!!!
Atmosphere
- No pressure - Set your own pace
- Live entertainment plays the latest in music
- Open and friendly people
- Full-service cash bar with professional bartenders
Club Floor Experience
Once the dance ends, the party moves to the club floor (the 2nd floor of the hotel). The entire floor is reserved, and only Virginia Friends members can gain admittance. Security is posted at all entrances. On the club floor, anything goes.
Amenities
- Mixers and munchies provided
- BYOB - Bring your own beverages
- Hospitality suite open for socializing
- Adjoining room for more adventurous and “group” oriented couples
- Famous Sybian often available for enjoyment
- All member rooms located on the club floor
Types of Play
You will find all kinds of swing at our club:
- Soft swing
- Sex in the same bed with no swapping
- Anything goes
- Just watching
It’s all up to you. Whatever you want or don’t want. No hassle, no pressure.
Club Policies
Requirements
- Absolutely NO controlled substances
- Each couple must have a signed club agreement on file
- Each couple must be 21 or older - We have the right to check IDs
- Club-issued name tags and wristbands are required
- Proper dress is required in all public areas of the hotel
VA ABC Laws
- No nudity in the lounge area - This includes no visible thongs, ladies
- All drinks purchased in the lounge must be consumed in the lounge
- Drinks not purchased in the lounge may not be brought into the lounge
- Bartenders must refuse service to anyone they deem too intoxicated
Privacy Protection
- Do not invite non-members to the club floor
- Be careful in places where non-members can hear your conversation
- Do not make suggestive comments or flaunt your activities around other hotel guests or staff
- Keep all club and lifestyle activities within the lounge and club floor
Contact Information
- Website: vafriendsonline.com
- Address: P.O. Box 56641, Virginia Beach, VA 23456
- Phone: 757-389-8269
What Makes Virginia Friends Special
- ✅ Couples and Single Females ONLY - Controlled access
- ✅ Completely different, much more relaxed, secure atmosphere - Core values
- ✅ NO MEANS NO - Golden rule
- ✅ No obligation to do ANYTHING you do not want to - Freedom focus
- ✅ Meet, see and talk to people from the very start - Transparency
- ✅ No uncomfortable expectations - Comfort priority
- ✅ Clean, safe, well-maintained area - Quality venue
- ✅ Nationally known hotel - Professional setting
- ✅ Early registration 3-5pm - Convenience
- ✅ MANDATORY newcomer seminar - Education focus
- ✅ Answer questions about club or lifestyle - Support service
- ✅ Familiarize with rules, guidelines, etiquette - Preparation
- ✅ Very informal - Comfortable atmosphere
- ✅ Meet other couples ahead of time - Social opportunity
- ✅ 5 to 20 new couples may attend - Manageable size
- ✅ Valid driver’s license as proof of age - Security measure
- ✅ Wristbands and optional name tags - Identification system
- ✅ Security, privacy, and protection - Core services
- ✅ Low-key security - Unobtrusive protection
- ✅ State-of-the-art headsets - Professional equipment
- ✅ Constant contact with each other - Coordination
- ✅ 65 or more couples - Good attendance
- ✅ Age groups of 25 to 55 - Diverse demographics
- ✅ 200 people dancing and socializing - Large scale
- ✅ No single men hitting on your spouse - Female-friendly
- ✅ Same thing on their mind - Shared purpose
- ✅ No pressure - Comfortable environment
- ✅ Live entertainment - Professional quality
- ✅ Latest in music - Current entertainment
- ✅ Open and friendly people - Welcoming atmosphere
- ✅ Full-service cash bar - Professional service
- ✅ Professional bartenders - Quality service
- ✅ Entire floor reserved - Private space
- ✅ Only Virginia Friends members - Exclusive access
- ✅ Security posted at all entrances - Protection
- ✅ Anything goes - Freedom on club floor
- ✅ Mixers and munchies provided - Convenience
- ✅ BYOB - Bring your own beverages
- ✅ Hospitality suite - Social space
- ✅ Adjoining room for group oriented couples - Group play area
- ✅ Famous Sybian - Equipment availability
- ✅ All member rooms on club floor - Convenience
- ✅ Soft swing to anything goes - Variety of play
- ✅ Just watching - Observation option
- ✅ No hassle, no pressure - Core philosophy
- ✅ Strict enforcement of policies - Quality control
- ✅ Privacy protection - Security priority
- ✅ VA ABC laws compliance - Legal adherence
- ✅ Professional contact information - Easy communication